Reset my phone and now it wants a google password i don't remember

That's Factory Reset Protection. The phone only unlocks with the Google account that was on it before the reset, there isn't a way around it from the phone itself. On a computer or another phone, go through Google's account recovery (the forgot password option on the sign in page). It will try your recovery phone number or email. Once you've set a new password, be aware the phone may refuse the new one for about 24 hours after a password change, so if it fails straight away, wait a day before trying again. If you can't recover the account at all, the manufacturer or carrier can unlock it with proof of purchase.